Avoidant Attachment - The Solo Tango

In your relational dance, you embody the tango's passion and precision, yet you prefer to dance solo. While you move through life with confidence and self-sufficiency, there's a deliberate choice to keep others at a distance, making what could be a duet into a solo performance. Your dance is one of independence, but it might be enriched by occasionally letting a trusted partner in.

Is it time to transform your Solo Tango into a captivating duet?

In the Solo Tango, every move you make is precise and self-assured, yet your dance floor is conspicuously spacious. The passion of the tango, often fueled by the interplay and connection between partners, is tempered by your choice to dance alone. This solo performance is a testament to your self-sufficiency, but it also echoes the distance you maintain even in crowded rooms. While your independence is admirable, it often serves as a fortress, not just a boundary.

Hyper-independence, while initially a robust defense mechanism, can become a barrier to meaningful connections. It often stems from a deep-seated belief that relying on others is a precursor to disappointment. This mindset, though protective, may prevent you from experiencing the full richness of mutual support and intimacy that relationships can offer. Humans are inherently social beings, wired for connection, and your solo tango, while graceful, might sometimes be a lonely one